I was spending some time with a few lifelong friends yesterday discussing plans for our futures, and the adventures we are preparing ourselves for. The excitement was ranging from new babies on their way to girls’ trips and work goals.
Then the topic of my blog came up and I was asked to explain it. I began to stumble.
For those of you who are bloggers you may understand the trouble of trying to wrap this great big world of yours into a few words. But for those who aren’t, let me try to explain.
My blog isn’t something that I know how to explain, because it isn’t really a finished or complete thought. It is a constantly evolving, forever growing, surprising endeavor that leaves me in awe of the things that are created within it.
When asked this question “What is your blog about?” I typically answer with something like this: It’s an inspiration and fashion blog that emphasizes and advocates for social goods and ethical apparel companies. Knowing that this will leave them with a blank stare I then try to re explain. The break down happens. I describe what social goods companies are and why my heart goes out to them. The rambling leads me to try and explain why I write about them. But then I get stuck. Because this is of course what my blog is about, in short, but at the same time it’s not what it is about at all.
It wasn’t until I was told “It sounds like you’re gonna be pretty successful” that I realized just how very wrong of an answer I have been giving. The generic answer explains the what, but it doesn’t share the real story, or my heart at all.
I have never been in this for the success. In fact I’ve never even been in this to support the companies that I believe in. I am in this to tell their story. To tell your story. And mine. I am in this for the people. The relationships and community.
I am in this for you.
When I began learning that there are people in the world who have decided to make it their life’s mission to make other people’s lives better I couldn’t turn away from them. My heart began pumping for those that are working to make a difference. I began looking for stories of women who are overseas building communities with other women. I have hunted down men who are creating sports teams with young boys in order to give them a sense of mentorship and relational foundation. I fell in love with the people who want nothing more than to be a voice for the voiceless. And my passion grew from there. My blog has, yes, become a place to speak for these people and to share their stories with you, but it has become so much more than that.
I have seen relationships develop in my own life that I never knew could have existed. A fellow blogger and I have connected across the country in a way that I only connect with a few close friends. Our monthly Skype dates are something that bring me more encouragement and empowerment than I receive from most anyone in my life. She gets me, and she gets why I do this. I couldn’t trade that relationship. I have gained a mentor who has begun walking side by side with me in planning out incredibly big life changes, and stepping up to remind me of how powerful I can be, simply by being me. My connection with these incredible companies has given me friends who are hosting me to travel and explore new cities, just so I can have the chance to build relationships and understand the community and story behind their hearts in a more real way. I have been given the opportunity to grow and learn with people all over the world all because I choose to write.
And that is what my blog is about. Building community. Standing up for one another. And being vulnerable in every sense of the word.
I am here, writing, because I hope to bring something to your life that you aren’t receiving in the social setting that is in your day to day life. Whether it be inspiration in fashion or passion, or maybe just giving you a sense of feeling like you can connect, this is why I’m here.
All I want in life is relationship. It isn’t about the number of Instagram followers, or how many times I get repinned, it is and always will be about giving you a place to feel at home.
I want to be your community. And I am so thankful to have you as mine.
So what is your life about? We all have a generic explanation of what we do, and how it appears on the surface. But I want to know the heart. After all, isn’t that really the part we should really be sharing?